Doing the right thing for Valentine’s Day depends upon the type of woman you have. Some women love all the romantic things that Valentine’s Day offers — chocolates, short love poems, love words, flowers, stuffed bears, romantic messages, romantic dinners, etc. Other women don’t like any of that stuff on Valentine’s Day.
The reason why they don’t like it varies, but it mostly has to do with the fact that Valentine’s Day is an excuse to be romantic. It comes with the expectation of it. And for women, if you’re not romantic with them at any other point during the year, then following the expectations of Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean much to them.
So with your woman, pay attention to what she says and what she means about Valentine’s Day. Pay attention to what is important to her. And above all, make sure that you are romantic with your wife at least during some other points of the year besides Valentine’s Day, your anniversary, her birthday or Christmas.
No matter your wife or partner, you can still do something that will sweep her off her feet for Valentine’s Day, as long as it means something to her. And that’s easy enough to find out. Also, most women really do appreciate short love poems, as long it’s from your heart and you’re really trying to connect with her and be real.
Why do I know most women like this stuff? Because my wife doesn’t like all the traditional stuff for Valentine’s Day. To her, it feels contrived. And me writing love poems doesn’t necessarily mean the most to her. What really touches my wife and makes her feel loved is when I do service for her. She loves it when I clean up, when I take care of things, when I handle things. When things are taken care of, she can relaxed. If I try to write my wife a short love poem and things aren’t taken care of, you can sure bet that things won’t go over smoothly.
So before I write her any poems, which I love to do, I make sure to take care of everything else first. I make sure she’s feeling relaxed and comfortable with daily concerns. Then I write her a really nice love poem, and she loves it.
Above all, just pay attention to your partner and what makes her feel loved. And make sure to be romantic during other points of the year at an unexpected time. If you do those things and love her like she wants to be loved, you can create a truly magical Valentine’s Day for your wife.
And any short love poems you write will mean a lot to her as long as it is sincere and you’ve taken care of everything else I’ve told you. The words don’t matter in the poem. Only your intent matters. Getting the intent right is the hard part. Making sure it will be powerful and mean something to your wife is the hard part. The words are the easy part because you just write what is real for you. She knows how well you write. She cares much less about your ability then she does your intent. That’s why I’ve written about your intent and making sure you get that portion right. May you have a Valentine’s Day that deepens your relationship and deepens your love.
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Everybody likes to feel special and to know that they are loved and cherised. The on 14th February is alledgedly the most romantic day of the year when you can take the opportunity to let your loved one know how strongly you feel by making Valentines Day extra special. By planning a day of love and romance your Valentine will be left in no doubt about how you feel and how much you care, even if you don’t say it very often at other times of the year. There are many ways that you can make this special day great and to ensure that you and your loved one have a very special day together.
You could choose to start the day off with a special personalised Valentines card with your loving message inside or how about a romantic letter in a bottle putting your feelings down in words. There are many great Valentines cards that you could choose for Valentines Day that would start the day off perfectly. You could decide to have the card sent direct to your loved one or have it sent to you so that you can surprise them and hand it to them yourself and see the pleasure on their face. A Valentines card with some well chosen words is a really great way to let that special someone know how you feel, especially if you don’t find it very easy to say.
If you are going to get a gift for your Valentine as well as a card, then choose something special that will go with your loved one’s personal style or taste and this particular day will continue to be extra special. If the special person in your life likes to be more traditionally romantic then why not get a traditionally romantic Valentines gift such as chocolates, flowers or champagne. These Valentines gifts are always guaranteed to go down well and will ensure that your Valentine knows how much you care about them, leaving your loved one smiling and feeling happy. If you think that your loved one might prefer something a little bit more fun and unusual then you might decide to get a newspaper with your Valentine as the star or a ‘love’ coat hook. Whatever type of thing your Valentine likes there are many lovely gifts available that will suit everyone, no matter what kind of personality they have.
If you would like the special Valentines feeling of romance to go on long after the day itself, then you might decide to treat the special person in your life to a longer lasting Valentines gift. You might decide to opt for a name a star or a dedicate a tree gift or even some elephant poo in a box. Don’t worry that is not quite as unromantic as it sounds as it also contains some seeds which your Valentine can plant and watch growing over several months. It would be so romantic to have a gift that develops over time and one that provides memories for many months and maybe years to come.
Valentines is a great opportunity for you and your loved one to share some special time together. Do you fancy treating your Valentine to a short weekend break away that you can both enjoy together or maybe a romantic balloon ride for you both? If you would prefer a loving night in then set the scene with some scented candles whilst your loved one relaxes with some special bath gifts. You could then round the evening off by having a romantic dinner with champagne, which could be sipped from engraved crystal glasses. To finish the night perfectly you might wish to get a special Valentines Day pudding.
Whatever Valentines card or gift you decide to go for it will definitely end up being a special day for both of you and your Valentine will know how much you care and how you feel about them. Valentines is a truly great chance for you and your loved one to spend some quality time together by enjoying an extra special day of love and romance. Hopefully, the fantastic memories created on this special day will last much longer than just the actual day itself. So make your loved one feel brilliant by making the romantic celebration of Valentines, on 14th February, a day to remember and spoil the special person in your life by letting them know how much you love and care about them.
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